“Will he find me?”

Get Busy Working for God; If Marriage is His Will for You, Your Husband will Find you in Your Purpose

I will begin by saying that I get it darling. I get it when you question yourself if your husband will find you. “Will my husband find me?” That’s the cry amongst many unmarried Christian girls who are hopeful to settle and have their homes. I also understand that the stigma that faces these single Christian ladies from both peers and from within self is excruciatingly painful.

Don’t let loneliness creep in, get Busy Working for God coz surely, if its Gods plan you be married someday, your husband will find you. I know that sometimes you long for that companionship of a mate badly. And it gets so difficult too. But don’t settle for someone who the Lord doesn’t convict you about. I also get it that sometimes you want a physical connection badly, to just hold hands, kiss and cuddle with yours as you have those pillow conversation! Of what names you will give your kids and why you will not have your kids named funny but old school names like Epaphroditus. Don’t just settle so as to have these things. 

Learn to pray to the Father; To guide you to that person who is right for you and loves the Lord above all else. Pray that God will give you strength as you wait. And as you wait, keep yourself busy with the things of His Kingdom.

When you are busy, you hardly find time to feel sorry for yourself and wallow in frustration of being alone. Ask yourself what you are good at and give your all.

• Could it be the children ministry that gives you so much joy just talking to the young ones about God? It’s a good place to also practice motherhood as you mentor and show the young ones the way.
• Maybe you have found grace to minister to your peers and encourage them that it’s possible. Be their accountability, tell those unmarried that it’s actually possible to find ultimate freedom and contentment in Christ as you wait. Tell them of the freedom and peace therein so that they wouldn’t stall their life waiting for the husband to show up. Tell them that it’s possible to have joy complete in Him as you wait for the right man to notice and hunt you down. Testify and encourage the body of Christ.
• Is it missions that melt your heart? Join the mission team. Go to some village in whatever place and have the joy of telling His story,Christ's story…

Whatever the case, just don’t sit down and do nothing. Be found living for a kingdom cause. Let your life move on and in the course of time as you pursue your life, your purpose will connect you two.

As the writer of proverbs shares, “An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.” Proverbs 12:25. I hope these words from a sister will cheer you up and you will find rest in Him. I have been thinking of the words of the hymn

 

I come to the Cross, seeking mercy and grace

I come to the Cross, where You died in my place

Out of my weakness, and into Your strength

Jesus, I  come to the Cross…  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEnmS9uDuv0

May you go to the cross and exchange the weakness that brings fear and anxiety with the Strength of Christ.

Above all, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7

Yours Truly,

Sisters Keeper.

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